Past is Past.. ~~ as Tagged by Sara & Claudia

You have to answer the survey with an honest heart. An honest heart will give you good luck for the entire year. You may imagine of one people or maybe some people not only one. Answer it, "What if your ex says" referring to you!!! 1. Why did you let me go? .: coz I need someone who really can love and take care of me :. 2. I still love you. .: It does not mean anything to me anymore :. 3. When did we last talk? .: why dont you ask urself :. 4. Will you go out with me? .: I dont think tht's a good idea :. 5. I cannot keep my promise to you. .: so?? :. 6. My friends say we don't look good together.. .: and they are so RIGHT about tht :. 7. You have changed! .: I didnt... It's just you who nvr notice the real me :. 8. Can we get back together? .: No! Please! Get a life and move on eh! 9. Oh, I know what this is all about. You found someone else. .: so wht if I found someone?? it's none of ur biz u knw :. 10. Don't you realize? You are the one who hurt me! .: excuse me?? I'm the one who's hurting u?? God.. wht a selfish jerk u r who r still blamming me :. 11. how can u forget our memories?? .: I did not, I just save it somewhere in my brain in a file name 'MISC' :. 12. I will always love you. .: Do u even understand the word Love act?? :. 13. Would you die for our love? .: FYI, news flash! I dont die for any1's love except for Jesus :. 14. You jump, i jump..remember? .: huh??! I never say tht! :. 15. Kiss me to break the curse if i sleep for a hundred years. .: I prefer to let you sleep for more than that :. 16. Whats the difference between me and Him/Her. .: You are who you are, and he is what he is :. 17. I saw you last night with your girlfriend/boyfriend. .: so?? :. 18. Without me, your life wouldn't be complete. .: Correction please, I dont need you to make my life complete :. 19. Why are you doing this to me!? .: wht?? I didnt do anything :. Don't let someone become your everything, because when they're gone you have nothing! ~ Kenya Mitchell

Sneak pEek: OBSESSED (2009)

I was suppose to be out and watch Harry Potter last n8..but smthing came up and I have to stay back at home. Bought the latest movie dvd OBSESSED. It was a wonderful evening, watching Obsessed while having my Prawn Spaghetti for dinner. Have you watch it?? No? then you should watch it, my god I love this movie. I'm not a big fan of Beyonce Knowles, but well ..as for me, she really nailed it in this movie. I love when she hit that psychotic Lisa (Ali Larter), gosh I cant imagine myself dealin wif this psychotic gurl, but Sharon (Beyonce Knowles) she did the right thing to that bitch..hohohoho.. ;) ok peeps..here's the trailer and the synopsis of this movie from rottentomatoes.com ..CHeers!!

Rated: PG-13 [See Full Rating] for sexual material including some suggestive dialogue, some violence and thematic content.

Runtime: 1 hr 48 mins

Genre: Dramas

Theatrical Release:Apr 24, 2009 Wide

Box Office: $68,261,644

Synopsis: Hell hath no fury like an office temp scorned in director Stephen Shill's domestic thriller OBSESSED. Executive-produced by entertainment megastar Beyonce Knowles, the film stars Knowles as Sharon,... Hell hath no fury like an office temp scorned in director Stephen Shill's domestic thriller OBSESSED. Executive-produced by entertainment megastar Beyonce Knowles, the film stars Knowles as Sharon, a one-time temp who has become a dutiful wife to investment brokerage hot-shot Derek (Idris Elba of THE WIRE), as well as the mother to their son. Further temp-tation arrives in the form of Lisa (Ali Larter of HEROES), who sets her blonde ambitions on Derek from day one. Sharon is wary but Derek remains a model of marital fidelity in the face of Lisa's repeated flirtations--inappropriate incidents that he avoids telling Sharon about. But when Derek rejects Lisa's sexual advances at the company Christmas party, her downward spiral of romantic obsession leads her to pursue Derek on a corporate retreat and attempt suicide in his hotel room. Promptly sent into spousal exile, Derek must win back Sharon's trust while the two attempt to put Lisa's psychotic episode behind them. Lisa is one temp who's not easily reassigned, though, and her increasingly brazen intrusions into Derek and Sharon's life auger an inevitable reckoning between the would-be seducer and wife. First-time film director Shill gets a wonderfully wicked performance from Larter, while Knowles shows off her claws in the film's climactic showdown. Taking its place alongside such films as FATAL ATTRACTION and DISCLOSURE, OBSESSED is a rollicking reminder that all's fair in love and stalking.

Starring: Idris Elba, Beyonce Knowles, Ali Larter, Bruce McGill

Starring: Idris Elba, Beyonce Knowles, Ali Larter, Bruce McGill, Jerry O'Connell, Christine Lahti

Director: Steve Shill

For more info on movie preview or comment please click

http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/1207523-obsessed/#

It Is Sooo Yesterday...But I still LoVe tHis..!!

Food Menu Fail (I tHink)

You'll see this at Aesah Corner at the waterfront ;)

iNtr0DuCing ROYAL PIRATES!!

Sneak pEek: Last House On The Left..

Thinking of watching this movie tmrw.. since that at growball je ada ni mvie mind as well I go tomrw coz tmrw is Movie day (RM5 ticket) hehehehe.. oK peeps..here's the trailer and the synopsis of the movie ;)

Rated: R for sadistic brutal violence including a rape and disturbing images, language, nudity and some drug use

Genre: Horror/Suspense

Theatrical Release:Mar 13, 2009 Wide

Box Office: $32,721,635

Synopsis:

Based on Wes Craven's landmark 1972 exploitation flick of the same name, LAST HOUSE ON THE LEFT is a brutal movie that exposes the darkest recesses of human depravity. The simple plot follows four... Based on Wes Craven's landmark 1972 exploitation flick of the same name, LAST HOUSE ON THE LEFT is a brutal movie that exposes the darkest recesses of human depravity. The simple plot follows four criminals on the lam who encounter a pair of nubile female teens in a small mountain town. After murdering one and brutally raping the other and leaving her for dead, the cons seek refuge at a nearby summer house. The twist is that it's the very home inhabited by the parents of one of the victims. Upon learning that their house guests raped and tortured their 17-year-old daughter, the couple exact a revenge that arguably exceeds the excesses of the sociopathic gang. When originally released in 1972, LAST HOUSE ON THE LEFT was a shock to the system. Never before had a film shown such images of human wickedness. Grainy and low budget, the original film played like a maniacal cackle from the seedy underbelly of an America nursing a brutal post-Aquarian hangover. Things play out a little differently, though, in 2009. For starters, the movie actually looks quite beautiful, and the story’s idyllic mountain setting is milked for all it's worth. The performances are noteworthy as well, with Garret Dillahunt more than convincing as Krug, the gang's swaggering leader; and Monica Potter and Tony Goldwyn portraying the distressed parents with an effective mix of panic, courage, and blind instinct. In an age marked by both increasingly ghastly films and a public discourse that actually debates the merits of institutional torture, a film like LAST HOUSE ON THE LEFT really shouldn’t shock anyone. But in both the original and the remake, there’s a latent nihilism that permeates the world. The idea of a sense of lawlessness that cannot be understood or prevented, but only reacted against, is truly disquieting and makes this story unique in the annals of horror.

Starring: Tony Goldwyn, Monica Potter, Sara Paxton, Garret Dillahunt

Starring: Tony Goldwyn, Monica Potter, Sara Paxton, Garret Dillahunt, Martha MacIsaac, Riki Lindhome

Director: Dennis Iliadis

For more info on movie preview or comment please click http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/1205377-last_house_on_the_left/

Wedding Plan : Choosing A Wedding Photographer

Important Things To Consider When Choosing a Wedding Photographer (post credit to frugalbride.com)

Experience Level - Has this person photographed other weddings? Does he/she do this for a living or for fun?

Photographic Style - Are the images that you are shown, what you would like to see? There are "buzz" words flying about everywhere about photojournalism, formal, classic candid, and so on. Do you want a mixture of black and white or only colour photos?

Truth in Advertising - Is this the photographer that will be photographing your wedding or will they send in whomever is available. Don't be shocked, this happens more often than you can imagine. Be certain that you know which photographer is going to be there and that you see HIS/HER work and meet with that individually face to face.

Personality - Is the photographer that you meet someone that you can get along with? Is the "chemistry" there?

Appearance - Ask the photographer how he/she intends to dress. Is this person well groomed?

Price Range - Although, the last thing you want to do is shop by price, is this person within your budget? If not, is he or she worth the price difference? Make sure you understand what everything costs, including reprints and albums.

Delivery - How long does it take to get your proofs back, thank you cards, your finished album, your bridal portrait, etc.?

Offering - Whether it's a la carte or a package, do you understand what you are getting? Is there any room for changes and will it cost to do so? Sometimes the packages are fixed, sometimes they can be customized, in any case, ask. How much time will he/she spend? What if you need more time? Make sure that you know what's coming.

Contract - Do you understand the contract. Is it fair? Is everything spelled out? When it comes down going to court, only what is WRITTEN really counts, not what was promised. Make sure that you have no doubts before signing. Read it ALL.

What about deposits and payments? What does it say about cancellations and the photographer not being there? If the photographer protests, ask him why? This is one area NOT to take lightly. You could be disappointed for a long time.

References - A personal reference is always the best and people love to talk. Get a list of references from the photographer and check them out personally. A photographer who doesn't have references or is afraid to give them to you may not be the person that you need to hire.

Other Questions: (some questions may be repeated from the list above)

• Have you shot a wedding at my location before?
• Do you have an assistant?
• Do you have backup equipment and is it the same quality as the primary equipment?
• What time will you begin and how long will you stay until?
• When will the proofs be ready?
• Do we get to keep the proofs?
• Do you mark your proofs?
• Where and how are your proofs marked?
• How much extra for unmarked proofs?
• Do we get to keep our negatives?
• How long do you keep the negatives and will you sell them to us?
• Do you use high speed film to expose natural light?
• Do you have tele-photo and wide-angle lenses?
• Do you work well with the other vendors? i.e.: coordinators, caterers, videographers.
• Can you work from a photo checklist that we create?
• How will you be dressed?
• Do you process and develop your own film and prints?

What goes on the all important contract?

• The name of your photographer
• The time that he/she arrives and leaves
• The number of proofs you will view in order to pick your enlargements and/or keep
• The description of the package you ordered
• A list of guaranteed prices for enlargements. If they have a brochure with prices then get the photographer to write down that the prices on the brochure they gave you are the prices that you will be charged.
• The cutoff date for these brochure prices.
• All additional charges, services, taxes, travel, etc... Get the exact cost on the contract.
• An explanation of what happens if your photographer doesn't show up.
• The date and deposit amount and how much is still owing.
• Your name, address and phone number. The names and addresses of the ceremony and reception locations.

I hope from the tips above, you will have a clearer information on how to choose your wedding photographer. To make your search easier, please feel free to visit the links as I have listed below:-

www.bennyliew.com www.jofannabridal.com www.friscod.com

www.milleniumimage.com

Wedding Plan : Wedding Budget

A wedding budget is absolutely essential to planning your wedding. In fact I think setting your wedding budget is one of the very first things you should do. Use this handy wedding budget worksheet to plan out what you'll need to pay for, and how much you should plan to spend on each thing. (Use a calculator to figure out the percentages.) I recommend you copy this wedding budget worksheet and put it in your planning notebook so it will be handy whenever you are out shopping or talking to a vendor.

Your Wedding Budget Worksheet

(as guided by NINA CALLAWAY)

My Total Budget ___________

Expenses	% of total budget	Your estimate	What you actually spent
Ceremony Location fee, officiant fee, marriage license, musician's fees, ring pillows	3%	______	______
Reception Reception Site, Food, Drinks, Rentals, Cake, Favors	48%	______	______
Attire Dress, Headpiece/veil, undergarments and hosiery, shoes, accessories, jewelry, hair and makeup, Groom's Tuxedo or Suit, shoes, bow tie, cuff links, studs, suspenders	10%	______	______
Rings His and her rings, engraving	3%	______	______
Flowers Ceremony, bride's bouquet, maid-of-honor and bridesmaid bouquets, corsages and boutonnieres, centerpieces, flower-girl basket	8%	______	______
Music Ceremony Musicians, Band and/or DJ, cocktail hour musicians, sound system rental	8%	______	______
Photography Photographer and Videographer's fees, albums, additional prints, disposable cameras for candids	12%	______	______
Transportation Transportation for wedding party, guest shuttle and/or parking attendants	2%	______	______
Stationery Invitations, response cards, thank you notes, postage, calligraphy, guest book	3%	______	______
Gifts Bridesmaid and groomsmen, parents, welcome baskets for out-of-town guests.	3%	______	______

Wedding Plan : Lighting, Location & Love

I didn't write this - I found it in the in the net awhile ago ;) So here it goes.. The basic elements for planning your wedding reception and reception decorations will be determined by the location you select. Some of the reception decorations will also be based on the type of food and serving you choose. Planning the reception decorations is all a part of the details of planning the wedding reception. Wedding receptions have six basic elements in their planning:

• Location
• Physical Comforts
• Reception decorations
• Catering
• Music
• Dancing

These elements come into play based on the reception location, especially if you are planning a wedding in a place where it’s a blank slate. Some locations already have their environmental décor that will play a part in the reception decorations and you need to take that into account with your planning. There are many ways to take care of your decorations including rentals. Renting some of the accessories can save you money. The ambience of your reception decorations includes your:

• Lighting
• Place settings
• Drapes
• Flowers
• Balloons

The lighting choices can be as simple as twinkle lights and votive candles. Your place settings can be simple or elaborate. The drapes can be made of tulle, gossamer or silk. Your flowers can match those at the wedding or be individual to the reception itself. Balloons offer a fanciful touch to the decorations. There are so many options that you can explore with your reception decorations that the list could be endless. Decide on a venue, decide on a theme and then let that help you choose the overall look and feel you are going for with your reception decorations. You can add shallow bowls of water with candles floating in them. You can mix and match your wine goblets. You can transform candles with wrapped ribbons. Go crazy when you plan your reception decorations and create the perfect venue to celebrate your first few hours as newlyweds.

Accessories 101

Here´s the bare minimum for what brides should consider when planning their accessories for the wedding:

• headpiece/veil/tiara
• gloves
• wrap/shawl
• shoes
• necklace
• earrings
• engagement ring/wedding rings
• bracelet

5 Myths & Reality of Marriage

Some may thought or believe that after marriage, life will be special than before. Marriage is all about love, commitment, trust and needs from both husband & wife.

Myth 1: Marriage will end our loneliness Reality: There is some couples who still felt lonely even they are married Myth 2: Marriage will make you perfect Reality: Husband & wife complete each other but not making each other perfect Myth 3: Couple who love each other will not get into trouble / problems Reality: Almost every marriage has it owns ups & downs, which some may close the door of feeling romantic towards each other Myth 4: Marriage will make someone feel happy / joyful Reality: You cant just depend on your partner to make you happy, to cherish your life.. But actually true happiness comes from within you Myth 5: You must know each other's feeling / needs without saying it out Reality: Just because you are husband & wife, it doesn't mean that you guys can read each other's mind

WedDing s0nGs

Since my last post that I talked about weddings.. Here is some of the vids of wedding songs that u might like.. ;) will post out again some other songs soon.. Cheers & Enjoy..

Tagged by Ms Sheirlyene YenYen: My WeDding pLan

Rules: Once you've been tagged, you are supposed to write a note with d wedding plan! At the end, choose d people u want to be tagged. You have to tag the person who tagged you. If I tagged you, it's because I want to know about u!=)

1. How old are you? 23 2. Are you single? err.... 3. At what age do you think you'll get married? 26..em...26?? I dunno.. 4. Do you think you'll marrying the person you are with now? ;) 5. if not, who do you want to marry? CHRIS PINE!!!! 6. Who will be your bridesmaid & best man? bridesmaid: Gurly, Tay, & Kremz.. ;) best men: Let my future husband to decide ;) (if possible my bro is one of them ;p ) 7. Do you want a garden/beach or traditional wedding? Garden.. 8. Where do you plan to go on honeymoon? DisneyLand!! ;p 9. How many guests do you think you'll invite? OMG...I dunno.. lol 10. Will that include your exes? Err..em.. Do you think they will come?? ;p 11. How many layers of cake do you want? 4 layers (mi fav number..) 12. When do you want to get married, morning or evening? Evening..sejuk ba ckit..hehe 13. Name the song/tune you'd like to play at your wedding. am not gonna tell u nw.. (padahal undecided) 14. Do you prefer fine dining or just normal spoon,fork and knife? Fine Dining 15. Champagne or red wine? Can I have both?? 16. Honeymoon right after the wedding or days after the wedding? After.. 7. Money or household items? BOTH! 18. How many kids would you like to have? 2-4 (if terlebih..well..God's gift jga kan) 19. Will you record your honeymoon in DVD/CD? Yeap..but exclude the 18sx part lol 20. Whose wedding plan would you like to know next? Those whom I tag in FB ;)

CoMing So0n

Went out for a movie wif my cuz Gurly and our friend Adam. What movie did we watch?? COming Soon.. no.. the title of the movie is COMING SOON.. ok some ada yang nda tau ada ni movie.. yea you can find this movie in GSC kk.. 1st of all this is a Thailand Horror movie.. well.. it is well known that Thai's Horror movie mmg best la..most of them.. But COMING SOON??!! OMG!! what a BIG DISSAPOINMENT!! Sdh la the movie boring, plus 2 kampungan ladies at the back..astaga..non stop talking as if they are watching movie back at home ah..and one of them keep on pressing her hp (SMSing I assumeD) and the sound from that hp...ergh...annoying btl o0!! K..back to the movie, I give the movie 0 out of 5 stars, it is THE BEST WORST MOVIE OF THE YEAR so far.. well guys..percaya atau tidak..mmg buruk.. if you guys dont believe me..well go and watch it urself and rasalah ur RM9 ticket burned! Not worth at all to spend your money and time on this movie.. Sampai my cuz Gurly keep on asking me 'moi ko mo keluar?' But since that alang² sdh dlm cinema, half way lgi sdh..so I said we just tgk saja la smpai habis. This movie teda erti langsung, lousy, lousy, lousy..and lousy..at the end of the movie I was like 'huh??ni ja??astaga!' Well guys here's the trailer for the movie (nmpak ja best~~ceh):

Tagged by Ms Sheirlyene YenYen: 100 tRuths

Rules: Once you've been tagged, you are supposed to write a note with 100 Truths about you. At the end, choose 25 people to be tagged. You have to tag the person who tagged you. WHAT WAS YOUR: * Last beverage: Tea.. * Last phone call: Woon Aircond.. (hehe) * Last text message: 'I was saying soon is my acara' - from Kev hehe * Last song you listened to: Kantoi by ZeeAvi * Last time you cried: emm...last 2 weeks?? HAVE YOU EVER: * Dated someone twice: Yea.. * Been cheated on: Yea.. * Kissed someone & regretted it: YEs!! urgh!! * Lost someone special: ... * Been depressed: Yeap.. * Been drunk and threw up: long tym ago...lol LIST THREE FAVORITE COLOURS: * Gold * Black * Pink THIS YEAR HAVE YOU (2009): * Made a new friend: Yea! Great peeps.. * Fallen out of love: ;) * Laughed until you cried: uhu * Met someone who changed you: yea ;) * Found out who your true friends were: yea more and more.. * Found out someone was talking about you: hmm * Kissed anyone on your friend's list: yea! hahaha..a few lgi lol * How many people on your friends list do you know in real life: Most of them.. * How many kids do you want?: 2-4 I guess * Do you have any pets: no.. I wish I have one.. ;( * Do you want to change your name: nope.. * What did you do for your last birthday: makan aLL day Long..!! wuHoo~~ * What time did you wake up today: at 8am * What were you doing at midnight last night: pgi tgk wayang paling buruk COMING SOON!! urgh!! * Name something you CANNOT wait for: iPhone ;p * Last time you saw your Mother: CNY.. I miss her sp much.. :( * What is one thing you wish you could change about your life: If I only I knw how to manage my money * What are you listening to right now : Bunyi aircond di office hehe * Have you ever talked to a person named Tom: yea.. * What's getting on your nerves right now: My fever & Flu * Most visited webpage: FaceBook! hehe * Whats your real name: Gwendelyn * Nicknames: Gwen * Relationship Status: It's COmplicated ;) * Zodiac sign: Aries * Male or female?: Female * Primary School?: SRJK(C) Cheng Hwa Papar * Secondary School?: ST Joseph Papar - SM KEn Hwa Keningau * High school/college?: POLy KK * Hair colour: err... * Long or short: Long n curly at the end.. ;) * Height: Im ony 5ft1.. hehe * Do you have a crush on someone?: ohyaaa.. lot of them.. gilaa laa.. hahahah * What do you like about yourself?: Everything abt me ;) * Piercings: 3.. * Tattoos: None at the moment ;p * Righty or left: Right.. FIRSTS : * First surgery: jst few months ago..huhu * First piercing: masa..um..primary 2.. * First best friend: Form 4.. lmbat ley..met alot backstabber biatch * First sport you joined: track run.. * First vacation: bRunei * First pair of trainers: Lupa ler.. RIGHT NOW: * Eating: McD BiG breakfast.. * Drinking: TEa.. * I'm about to: drink my tea while typing my answer lol * Listening to: still the music frm my aircond..hehe * Waiting on: someone to call hohoho YOUR FUTURE: * Want kids?: yes! of coz I do.. * Get Married?: yea..sepa nda mo?? * Career?: mo jadi wanita berkerjaya kunu hahahaha WHICH IS BETTER: * Lips or eyes: eyes * Hugs or kisses: hugs * Shorter or taller: Taller.. * Older or Younger: Older. * Romantic or spontaneous: Spontaneous. * Nice stomach or nice arms: Nice stomach.. * Sensitive or loud:loud.. hahaha * Hook-up or relationship: Relationship * Trouble maker or hesitant: Hesitant. HAVE YOU EVER: * Kissed a stranger: Never * Drank hard liquor: Cant recall any ;p * Lost glasses/contacts: glasses yes contacts no * Sex on first date: NO * Broken someone's heart: em yea..a few times..sorry ya ;) * Been arrested: HELL NO * Turned someone down: Alot..huhu * Cried when someone died: yea..Im a sensitive person * Fallen for a friend?: ee...em...ya..hehe DO YOU BELIEVE IN: * Yourself: YEs * Miracles : YEs * Love at first sight: i thnk so.. hehe * Heaven: YESSSS!! * Santa Claus: hehe.. yeshh.. * Kiss on the first date: (@.@) * Angels: YEAP!! ANSWER TRUTHFULLY: * Had more than 1 girlfriend/boyfriend at a time: yea..dulu la..hehe * Did you sing today?: EVERYDAY hehehe * Ever cheated on somebody?: yea..sometimes I can be bad.. * If you could go back in time, how far would you go?: Better jgn la.. * If you could pick a day from last year and relive it, what would it be? : DUnno.. * Are you afraid of falling in love?: erm.. There are 99 Questions overall and this was numbered 100 : Post this as 100 truths: & randomly tag 25 people